Just when you think your divorce is winding down and you’ve reached a settlement agreement with your spouse, your attorney or mediator says, “Now you will need a QDRO and that’s going to be an additional cost.” “WHAT?  Are you kidding?  What the heck is a QDRO?”

Most divorces will ultimately involve a QDRO.  QDRO is an acronym for a legal document called a Qualified Domestic Relations Order and is required whenever a divorcing couple needs to divide a Qualified Retirement Account. Let’s clarify exactly what that is.  A Qualified Plan is typically one being held by an employer and includes 401(k) plans, 403(b) plans, pensions, 457 plans, deferred compensation plans, and most RSU, restricted stock unit accounts.

IRA accounts are NOT plans that require a QDRO.  Your divorce decree is all you need for an IRA division.  In order to assign all or a portion of these accounts to a non-employee spouse, it has to be stated in the divorce decree and then the second document, a QDRO, must be completed and submitted to the plan for the division to take place.

In my practice, I facilitate the preparation of QDROs for my clients by acting as their representative to a QDRO attorney that I have vetted and found to be the most affordable and ethical.  Through this practice I have become aware of the multitudes of pitfalls that QDROs present and the often failure of attorneys and mediators to address the issues in the settlement negotiations.  Here is just a short list of some of the subtleties often overlooked.

  • Is the non-employee spouse eligible to receive a lump sum settlement upon retirement?
  • If the employee spouse dies, will the non-employee spouse still receive benefits?
  • Were any outstanding loan balances taken into consideration?
  • If splitting a 401(k), what is the actual date of division?  Will the earnings after that date be included?
  • For Pensions, does the plan set up a separate account for the non-employee spouse so they can choose their own payout options and beneficiaries?  If not, have you protected the non-employee spouse from early-retirement penalties?

As you can see, the waters of a QDRO are fraught with peril and not for the inexperienced!  Also, buyer beware!  Prices for QDROs can range from $500 to $3,000!!  Each plan has very specific requirements for the language of their QDROs and it is essential that the preparer have the plan documents in advance to ensure it will meet the requirements.  You want to ensure that the QDRO will be PRE-APPROVED by the plan if allowed to prevent rejection and more cost to re-do it correctly.

Once your decree is final, signed by the Judge, then you submit the finished QDRO to the Judge as well.  Once it is signed, then and only then is it ready to submit to the plan.  At that point, they will contact the non-employee spouse to get instructions for the disbursement or to identify the new account set up on their behalf.

This QDRO stuff is complicated!  Be sure you have an expert that can guide you through it and make sure you don’t get taken advantage of by the sharks out there that know you need help and aren’t afraid to make you pay up to $3,000 to get it.  It just isn’t necessary.

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